My TCC Interview

Helena Marklin Interview

A few weeks ago, a marketing coordinator at Tallahassee Community College reached out to me to inquire about my experiences and current position at J. Walter Thompson. As you may know, I am a proud alumna of Florida State University, but even before that, I was a TCC Eagle for two years.

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I have so many fond memories at my alma mater and I was so honored to be interviewed for their website. As one of 10 children, my parents did not have the means to financially support my tuition and college costs, and so TCC was the best fit for me at the time. Throughout my freshman and sophomore years, I learned that TCC was so much more than a community college. It was the foundation that showed me the communications field through my newspaper journalism class. It was the college that introduced me to incredible instructors and career specialists who took a vested interest in my success. It was the place where I really began understanding who I was and what I wanted to do with my life.

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As a proud alumna of TCC, I am thrilled to be able to share the final interview on this space.

Thank you so much, TCC, for paving the way to my success! 

Hello Again! (I have big news!)

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So much has changed in these past few months and I so wish I had documented it all in this little space. To sum it all up, three things have happened. I graduated college, I got engaged, and I moved to New York City. 

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But these things, these accomplishments, these beautiful milestones, are so much more than just things. They are moments filled with tears and stress and agony. They are minutes of smiles and kisses and laughter. They are memories of victories and dates of the past five years that serve as an introduction to my new life. These stories, memories, and things are what I am so proud of. I’ve mentioned so many times that am constantly trying to better myself in every possible way, and even more than that, I want to be able to share what I’ve learned with others.

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I’ve wanted to blog about so many things these past few months, but with most things, it gets harder and harder to go back once you’ve fallen off the wagon.

Yesterday, I was talking with Spencer, my soon-to-be husband (seeing that word on the screen is so weird and different and exciting!), about the past few months and all of the things that have led us here–college graduates, engaged, New York City residents–and he told me that when he expressed anxiety to one of his friends about moving to New York without a job lined up, his friend gave him a piece of advice that he’ll never forget. He said, “You know, you just have to do it. Go. Jump.”

And two weeks after Tony said this, Spencer got a job. 

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So this is me saying hello again. I’m a graduate, I’m engaged, and I’m living and working in New York City. It’s so good to be back.

Donate Blood!

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Photo from OneBlood

I have one of the best jobs–I have the opportunity to plan all of the events for our company, including all of the holiday parties, birthday parties, corporate events, cookouts, and I’ve recently been planning our company’s 30th anniversary party! You might recall last November when I helped to plan Tallahassee’s Light the Night Walk. Throughout the roughly 10 weeks of fundraising, I planned corporate lunches and meetings to keep employees updated on our progress. It’s by far my favorite thing to do at my job.

Every two months or so, Brandt holds a blood drive through OneBlood. As the events coordinator, I plan all of the drives, promote the drives, sign up employees, and ensure the drive runs smoothly. I’m also a donor. 🙂 (O+ for the win!) 

I’ve been donating blood ever since I was 16 and am very passionate about it. I try to donate whenever I am able and have donated at my church back home, Tallahassee Community College, Florida State University, movie theaters, and now at my office.

The last time I donated back in January was my eighth time! Which means, I have donated a whole gallon of blood. It was definitely a milestone for me and I look forward to donating more frequently in the future.

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Photo from Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

If you have never donated blood before, I would like to clear up a few thoughts you might have.

I wouldn’t say that donating blood is 100% painless, but it is definitely manageable. For me, the worst part is my anxiety leading up to the donation. When you go in, you read all of the information about the procedure, what they do with your blood, side effects, etc. You sign some paperwork and they prick your finger to test your iron. If your iron level is above a 12.5, then you’re able to donate. I’ve had problems with my iron so I have only been able to donate about 50% of the time. (I’ve learned that eating spinach or red meat a few days before along with breakfast the morning of resolves this issue.)

The entire donation process takes less than an hour on average. They give you lots of snacks and drinks along with kind conversation. You can read all kinds of facts and FAQs on various blood donation websites like American Red Cross or OneBlood.

The main reason I wanted to blog about this topic today is because I want to bring it into the conversation. There are so many people who are unfortunately unable to donate either due to travel or recent tattoos or pregnancy or personal reasons; because of all of these factors, it diminishes the amount of possible donations.

Donated blood is used for so many treatments. It can be used for cancer patients, infants, surgical patients, pregnant women, trauma patients, and so much more. You can donate once every 56 days and each donation can help up to three people. And recently, I noticed that there is a critical need for blood in Orlando, Florida (about 4 hours from where I live).

“Every two seconds someone in the U.S. needs blood.” 

If you are the slightest bit interested, I encourage you to do your research about it and consider donating. It could save someone’s life. 

Have you donated blood before? Have you considered it?

Spring Break in Tampa

FSUflowersIt’s officially spring! The weather is back to 70s and 80s, the flowers are blooming, and there are so many people spending time outside. It’s a nice little reminder of why I love living in Florida.

Last week was spring break and Spencer and I managed to sneak away to Tampa for a few days. The vacation was filled with board games, good food, lots of walking, and heaps of relaxation. I finished my second scarf and it is happily on its way to its new owner, my older sister, Kirsten. 🙂

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Spencer’s family loves to be active and its one of the reasons I love spending time with them! This is his dad and little brother, Grant. We walked to the Wiregrass Mall for a craft fair where we ate delicious thai food with pork buns and pad thai. I bought handmade soap made with lemon and handmade peppermint shaving cream for Spencer. The weather was perfect and I managed to get in some major steps for my Map My Run app.

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We then went to a car show in Dade City and I actually had more fun that I had initially anticipated. There were so many interesting cars! Both new and old with their proud owners close by. Spencer’s dad recently purchased this 1951 Chevy Styleline Deluxe and it’s so fun to ride in. Wherever we go, people constantly stop us to ask about its history.

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I know practically nothing about cars so naturally I thought of the crocodile with teeth game when I passed this truck.

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On Sunday, Spencer and his brother and I played mini golf and I didn’t get in last place! 

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On Sunday night, Spence and I went to the off-broadway play, First Date at The Straz Center! It was a hilarious play with only seven cast members! Afterwards, we walked around Ybor and had the best pizza at New York New York Pizza. It’s this hole in the wall place with pizza that reminds me of my summer in New York. So good.  

Spencer’s family is full of incredible cooks and I love helping to make dinners with them because I learn so much! We had lasagna, burgers with putin, and shish kebabs with rice. After this weekend, I decided I was going to eat healthier. Since then, I’ve stopped drinking soda and eating fast food and sweets.

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Board games are a staple in the Gould house so we played lots of catch phrase throughout the weekend. This is one of my favorite places to be. backyardpool

It was the perfect little getaway and I’m so happy we were able to spend time with his family. We came back to Tallahassee Monday night of spring break and both worked the rest of the break. Little trips like these remind me of what I’m working so hard for: travels, family, and happiness. 🙂

Happy spring 🙂 Wishing you warmth wherever you are!

one little word: improve

2015 has been the year of improvements. I’ve mentioned a few times that 2015 will be one of my biggest years. We’re halfway through March and it’s shaping up to be my best year yet.

In January, I set three little goals: to read one book a month, to craft something new once a month, and to run every day for a year. While I have been adept at sticking to my crafting goal, I have neglected my running goal. I threw myself into my last semester of college and work, and in turn, put running on the back burner.

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But to be honest, this is probably my most important goal. I want to get back into running, I want to improve my health, I want to change my lifestyle. And it took me two and a half months, but I have finally understood. I had my light bulb moment, my epiphany, my realization. This year, I have been improving myself in nearly every area of my life. I stopped biting my nails, I learned how to knit, and in that moment, I realized I was going to get back into shape.

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This is the very reason I have made my one little word for 2015 improve. (If you’re unfamiliar with the one little word concept, you can read more about it on Ali Edwards’ blog.) I want to improve myself physically, mentally, emotionally, and intellectually. I want to become a better version of myself every single day.

To help with my little goal of running, I downloaded the MapMyRun app. If you’re also using it, I’d love to follow along with your progress. I also start listening to music when I run–Spotify’s “Cardio” playlist has been on repeat for days. And recently, I made the decision to cut out sweets, fast food, and soda for the month of March. I’m hoping to make this a year-long improvement, but I’m taking it one step at a time.

I am a big believer in the saying, “it’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey.” I am always focusing on the details and what it takes to get to where I’m going. For personal projects, I am not worrying about the time it takes to complete or the results–what matters to me is that I get there. I think Elise puts it perfectly in her quote on her her daily calendar, “Shoot for progress–not perfection.” This could be my motto of the year. 

2015 is looking pretty great, and I’m looking forward to improving one day at a time. 

I Want to Remember (College)

2015 is going to be my biggest year yet. It’s the year I graduate college and start my first real job. It’s the year I move to a new city and move in with my boyfriend. It’s the year that I completely let everything go and just go.

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It’s February 26th and 2015 is moving fast. I blinked and we’re already 2 months in. The thing is, I really want to remember these days.

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I want to remember all of the late-night activities and peaceful moments. I want to remember what it feels like to come home, watch TV, knit, make dinner, and do homework with Spence. I want to remember all of the great TV shows we watched together: Parks & Rec, How I Met Your Mother, Breaking Bad, Weeds, Parenthood, 30 Rock, Community. I want to remember sleeping in, lazy Saturdays, and late breakfasts. I want to remember the weekly trivia, the late night board games, the barbecues, the late-night pool.

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I want to remember the day Spencer and I finally got our first cat, Zelda. I want to remember all of the days and nights we would stay up for hours playing with her and watching her do the funniest things. I want to remember the day she got outside and the next day when she came back. I want to remember the anguish I felt when she got sick, and we had to put her down. 

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I want to remember all of the weekend trips. I want to remember going to Disney World for the first time and being a little kid for a few days. I want to remember the spontaneous trip to Atlanta and the annual trips to Daytona for the 24-Hour Rolex Race. I want to remember all of the trips back home to Tampa where we spent time with family. I want to remember all of the long car rides filled with loud music, meaningful conversations, and endless hand holding.

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I want to remember my time at Tallahassee Community College. I want to remember where I started and the people that helped me get to where I am today. I want to remember the newspaper class, where I learned what true hard work really felt like. I want to remember the moment I got accepted into Florida State University

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I want to remember all of the football games at FSU. I want to remember waking up to the FSU war chant outside my window. I want to remember the 80,000 people in the sold out stands, all cheering for the same team. I want to remember the moment of sheer joy when I realized we were going to the National Championship. I want to remember being winners, and accepting defeat when it was time.

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I want to remember the distress I felt when I didn’t get accepted into the advertising program. I want to remember the moment I realized things happen for a reason and I accepted who I was. I want to remember the day I got the call telling me I was accepted into JWT’s summer internship program. I want to remember the elation I felt when I realized I would be moving to New York for the 2014 summer.

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I want to remember all of the traveling. I want to remember the trips to Chicago, St. Louis, New York, Philadelphia, and Atlanta. I want to remember all of the subway rides, the skyscrapers, the delicious food, and the incredible people. I want to remember the day I realized how incredibly massive the world is and the moment I decided I want to see it all.

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I want to remember all the times Spence and I talked about life after college, if only we could just get there. I want to remember all of the joyful memories along with the sad moments. I want to remember the great accomplishments, but also the biggest failures. I want to remember. 

And so I’ve done more, I’ve written more, and hopefully, I will remember more.

2015 will be my biggest year yet. And I can’t wait to remember it all. 

Painting With a Twist

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One of my goals this year is to craft and create more. I’ve always loved painting, but haven’t touched a brush in years. I love the newness and uncertainty of a blank canvas. I love filling it up with colors and making it brand new. I love creating something that I can put in my home and cherish every time I look at it. 

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But I don’t own an easel or paints or paint brushes and it all seemed like a huge debacle so I put it off. My coworker told me about Painting With a Twist and I checked out their website. It’s essentially a painting class where everyone paints the same thing and gets to eat and drink while painting. Pretty cool, right? I browsed their collection of over 4,000 pieces and found one for “date night.” Instead of two people painting the same painting, they each painted a canvas that when put together, would make a bigger piece of art. I loved the idea.

I really want to give credit to every painter out there. (Here’s to you, Elise!) Painting is so much harder than I had thought. I am a very detailed-oriented person and I had so much trouble painting the background of the canvas. I kept mixing colors and painting over parts that I loved. Spencer really helped me to add “imperfections” to the background, and I’m so happy with the result.

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You’ll notice that in the pictures above and below, the whiter canvas is on opposite sides. Spence painted the whiter background canvas and we switched them before we painted the trees. I love the versatility of painting. I love that we can be unique and crazy and make it our own. 

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My tree is on the left and his is on the right. I connected the branches to form a heart in the middle and Spence painted the moon. We added some white to the trees to brighten it up and add some texture.

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Next was my absolute favorite part: adding the flowers! While I really struggled with the background of the painting, I was pretty good at drawing the flowers. The details, man. For the most part, Spence painted the yellow flowers and I painted the pink ones, but we both took turns adding little bits of color to each canvas.

One special thing that I took away from this experience was that even though Spencer and I have been together for close to five years, we’re still learning new things about each other. I had no idea Spencer was so creative and abstract; we really complement each other’s talents and I love having a simple reminder of this realization. 

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I am so so incredibly happy with how these turned out! They are currently hanging in my bedroom and I’m so looking forward to waking up with the sun shining on them!

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If you’re looking for a great date idea, or even something fun to do with friends, definitely check out Painting With a Twist! They have studios all over the country! If you’ve painted with them before, I’d love to see your art!